...of Creative Frugality


Creatively Frugal Ways to 
Say "I Love You"
"If your loved one only had a small amount of money to spend on you for Valentine’s Day this year, what could he/she does that would mean the most to you? What would make the biggest impression on you for the smallest outlay of cash?"

"I  like to get a meaningful card.
 
I never go wrong by making my spouse's favorite desert:  Lemon Icebox Pie, which is a rare treat at our house. Here is the very easy recipe in case anyone wants it.
 
Lemon Icebox Pie
1 crust--graham cracker, vanilla wafer, or pastry crust
1 14 ounce can sweetened condensed milk (or homemade equivalent)
2  egg yolks
1/2 cup bottled lemon juice (or squeezed lemon juice)
2 Tbsp lemon zest, optional
 
Mix condensed milk, egg yolks, and lemon juice (and zest, if used) thoroughly.  Pour filling into crust.  Prepare the meringue. 
 
Meringue
2 egg whites, at room temperature, whipped
1 tsp vanilla flavoring
1/4-1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/8 tsp cream of tartar (can leave this out, but it makes the meringue smoother with less separation)
 
Whip the egg whites on high until very frothy. Add vanilla flavoring.  Continue your mixer at high speed while slowly adding in the sugar, beating until mixture is white, thickened, and forms and holds soft peaks when the mixer is stopped and beaters raised. Beat in the cream of tartar and then spread the meringue over the top of the pie forming soft peaks. Cook in preheated 325 degree oven for about 10 - 15 minutes until top is lightly browned. Refrigerate and serve cold. The pie can also be made ahead of time and frozen." ~ Lana


"Actually, my husband made me my absolute favorite gift two years ago. He had all our (at the time, four) children lay down like spokes on a wheel (heads together), with himself, and took a picture from above. Then he framed it and wrote underneath, 'Thanks for all you do for us!' It is my most treasured item and hangs in my laundry room, to encourage me when the laundry gets overwhelming. :-)
 
But, for this Valentine's Day, I'd love to just have a day of 'slave labor' to do all those projects around the house that may be small, but add up to feel overwhelming. We even have all the equipment it takes to complete those tasks. For example, there are many bulky things that sit on our kitchen counters all the time. Some we don't even use, others we could modify, such as a magnetic knife rack on the wall, which we've had for two years, but have never hung up. Instead, our chunky knife block still sits there. With five (soon to be six) children under 10, so there just never seems to be time to get to things like that. But it would make the everyday tasks so much easier or more efficient to do all those 'little things.'" ~ Lori

"I would like to get a love letter from my spouse. He writes really well but has not done it for a long time." ~ Nuria


"The best gift is time and attention. My husband and I have a great relationship, but we are active in many areas and stay busy, plus we have two children under two! We love our lifestyle, but we've also learned that those times we deliberately set apart for the two of us are not just precious, they are absolutely necessary.  This Valentine's Day, my plan is to put the kids to bed early, and sit on the floor in front of the fire and talk and eat and just give each other the gift of time and attention." ~ Annie

 
 
 
"My husband is a man of few words. I know he loves me because he shows me everyday by the little things he does for me and he tells me he loves me also. But I would love a letter or even note from him about what things I do that makes him feel special. I try to go out of my way every day but it might be nice to hear him say, 'I love it when you wear your hair up. You look so pretty,'  or 'Thanks for making cherry cheesecake for me on a Tuesday night. You know it's my favorite and it wasn't even a holiday.'    I've also told him that I do not need a dozen roses. If he wants to get me flowers, one will do and I don't need a whole box of candy. A candy bar will do. It's the thought that counts." ~ Sandy

 
"We don't buy store bought cards or flowers. Our money is tight. One year I helped plan a couples' romantic date night for couples at our church. I used some lines from Song of Solomon in the Bible (my husband's favorite love poems). I typed them out and left some blanks and gave each husband a sheet to make up his love poem for his wife. We had a contest and gave a prize. The winner had everyone in tears. I still have the one my husband made up; he is quite the romantic. He knows that the best way to say, 'I love you' is to let me have some time to myself. We homeschool, so I am always with our girls and enjoy some time away from them now and then." ~ Diana

"I want my Sweetie to save that small amount of cash for our vacation in June.  This way we can both enjoy something together with our children." ~ K.T.


"Instead of cut roses for Valentines Day, I would opt for a rose bush. We could plant it in the yard and it would be pretty for many years to come." ~ Lynn


"Do a chore that is normally theirs that they don’t like.
Make their favorite dessert.
Give them a day off, take care of anything that needs to be done that day.
Look for 'found' objects that are heart-shaped and either take a picture or save it for them.
My father-in-law makes screen savers with a sweet message on them for his wife." ~ Kathryn

 

Editor's Note: Thanks to this reader for taking time to share her ideas!

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